The Anti-Social Media
Weekly video check-ins with the people who matter most.
3 minutes a week beats 3 hours every 6 months.
No ads. No algorithms. No data selling. Ever.
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For every circle that matters
Gather brings consistency to the relationships that matter most—with conversation packs tailored for your circle.
Scattered uni mates, busy professionals
Stop feeling guilty about being a 'bad texter.' Three minutes a week keeps your closest friendships alive—through career moves, city changes, and life's curveballs.
Relatives near and far
From grandparents to cousins, stay present in each other's lives. Share moments that matter, even when you can't be there in person.
Bible study, prayer partners
A weekly rhythm of reflection and sharing that deepens your spiritual walk—together. Our Faith & Spirituality prompts guide meaningful conversations.
NCT groups, parent circles
Keep your support network close during the early days. Our Parent Circle prompts help you share the highs, lows, and everything in between.
Fantasy leagues, match-day mates
More than just scores. Our Sports & Fandom prompts turn your fantasy league into real friendships—from transfer drama to match predictions.
Book clubs, hobby groups
Turn shared interests into lasting friendships. Whether it's monthly reads or weekend hobbies, go deeper than surface-level chat.
...and many more to explore in the app
Conversations that deepen
Our prompts evolve with your group. Start light, grow deeper — at your own pace.
“What made you smile this week?”
“What restored your energy recently?”
“What's something you've been carrying?”
“What is helping you grow right now?”
Go deeper with
Themed prompt collections that guide your circle through meaningful topics—week by week.
Included with Premium
Your weekly check-in
Three minutes a week. Four simple moments. One powerful way to stay close to the people who matter most.
Step 1
Every week, your circle receives a thoughtful prompt. Ice-breakers become real conversations over time.
No pressure. No doomscrolling. Just one meaningful moment.
Step 1
Every week, your circle receives a thoughtful prompt. Ice-breakers become real conversations over time.
No pressure. No doomscrolling. Just one meaningful moment.
Step 2
Record a 3-minute video when it feels right. No scheduling. No awkward timing. Just you, being real.
Async video means deeper connection without coordination.
Step 2
Record a 3-minute video when it feels right. No scheduling. No awkward timing. Just you, being real.
Async video means deeper connection without coordination.
Step 3
Watch your friends open up — in their own words, their own space. This is where the magic happens.
You show up. They show up. The circle feels complete.
Step 3
Watch your friends open up — in their own words, their own space. This is where the magic happens.
You show up. They show up. The circle feels complete.
Step 4
Week by week, conversations deepen. Your circle becomes your space — a living archive of friendship.
No algorithms. No ads. Just the people who matter.
Step 4
Week by week, conversations deepen. Your circle becomes your space — a living archive of friendship.
No algorithms. No ads. Just the people who matter.
“3 minutes a week beats 3 hours every 6 months.”
Perfect for friends, families, faith groups — any circle that matters.
The anti-social media
Everything we don't do is intentional. No infinite scroll, no engagement tricks, no dark patterns.
See every update from your circle. No sorting, no filtering — just your friends, in order.
Subscription-funded means your data stays yours. We don't sell attention.
Watch when you're ready. Our gentle reminders encourage, never guilt.
Your videos are never deleted. Build a living archive of your friendships.
“Hi, I'm Jordan :) I'm honestly not a great texter, and after moving home from uni, I watched friendships slowly fade to just sharing Instagram reels. I built Gather because I wanted something that actually worked for people like me.”
Founder of Gather
No hidden fees. No data selling. Just a tool that helps you stay close.
Perfect for trying Gather with your closest friends.
That's just £3.00/month
For those who want more circles and deeper conversations.
Prices may increase for new members
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Everything you need to know about Gather.
Join the waitlist for early access. We'll let you know as soon as Gather is ready.
Free
to get started
2-8
friends per circle
3 min
per week
Join the waitlist for early access. We'll let you know as soon as Gather is ready.
Free
to get started
2-8
friends per circle
3 min
per week